Palace insiders have reportedly expressed growing concern that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s relaxed “California” lifestyle and public behavior are drifting too far from the royal standards they continue to associate with. According to sources, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have embraced a more casual and modern approach to life in the United States.
Their demeanor and presentation at public events often contrast sharply with the formality traditionally expected of British royals. “Harry and Meghan’s behavior doesn’t always reflect the royal image they still try to maintain,” one insider said. “There’s been a real effort to polish their public image and keep things measured.”
The concern follows a viral moment from the couple’s recent appearance at the Project Healthy Minds Gala in New York. During the red carpet event, Harry was seen giving Meghan a light pat, a gesture that drew widespread attention online and sparked headlines about their public display of affection.
According to Radar Online, Meghan was reportedly embarrassed by the moment and has since told Harry to avoid such gestures in public. “Meghan’s laid down some ground rules – she’s fine with affection, but not when it risks becoming the headline,” a source said.
The insider explained that Meghan’s focus has always been on maintaining a sense of professionalism during public engagements, especially when cameras are watching. “Harry means well, but she’s determined to keep things professional,” they added. “Meghan is ultra-protective of their reputation. After the charity gala, she’s made it clear – no more hands on her butt when the world can see!”
Observers note that while the Sussexes’ more relaxed image has been well-received by their American supporters, it continues to draw criticism from those within the royal establishment. Their casual style of dress, physical affection, and informality during appearances are seen by some royal watchers as being at odds with the refined traditions of the monarchy.
Since stepping back from royal duties in 2020, Harry and Meghan have worked to establish their own identity, blending Hollywood glamour with philanthropy and media ventures. However, maintaining the balance between authenticity and royal decorum remains a challenge.
As one palace source summed up, “They want to appear relatable and modern, but there’s still an expectation that they uphold a certain dignity. That’s the tension they’re constantly navigating.” Despite the chatter, the couple continues to present a united front, focusing on their charitable work and public image as they redefine what it means to be modern royals living outside the monarchy’s shadow.