Meghan Markle is facing criticism from a local Montecito resident who claims the Duchess of Sussex is “out of touch” and fails to engage with her community like other celebrities in the area. According to local journalist Richard Mineards, a well-known columnist in the region, Markle declined a neighbor’s attempt to share a personal project — a gesture that, in the close-knit, high-profile town, was seen as unusually cold.
“There was even this anecdote of an elderly neighbour who wanted to give her a documentary he had made on local history,” Mineards shared. “The old man never got past the gate.” The account has sparked renewed debate about Markle’s public persona versus her private life in the affluent Californian enclave she shares with husband Prince Harry.
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As reported by the Daily Mail, Mineards suggested that the Duchess prefers to keep her distance from those around her, calling her a “distant” neighbor — a stark contrast to the down-to-earth reputation many Montecito residents strive to maintain, regardless of their fame.
The elderly neighbor who attempted to deliver the documentary described Markle’s behavior as overly curated. “She cultivates a very controlled image. She pays attention to every appearance, every word, every gesture,” he told Mineards. He added, “And here in Montecito, we appreciate simple people, even famous ones.

Oprah Winfrey, for example, shows up at charity events. Meghan doesn’t play the community game.” Markle and Prince Harry relocated to Montecito in 2020 after stepping back from their royal duties. Since moving into the serene seaside town, they have kept a relatively low profile while continuing to build their media ventures through Archewell Productions and other platforms. However, their quiet lifestyle has drawn mixed reactions.
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While some residents respect their privacy, others, like the elderly neighbor, appear disillusioned with the couple’s limited community involvement, especially when compared to figures like Oprah Winfrey and Ellen DeGeneres, who are known to attend and support local events and causes.
The incident has reignited discussions about Markle’s carefully crafted public image and whether it aligns with the expectations of her neighbors in Montecito. Though the Duchess has remained silent on the matter, the criticism underscores the challenge she continues to face — balancing her celebrity status and privacy with the desire for authenticity and local goodwill in a community that values personal connection over formality.
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