Despite filing for divorce from Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez appears to be finding it challenging to let go. According to In Touch, an insider close to the singer and actress claims that Lopez is “quite obsessed” with Affleck, even while projecting an “unbothered” front to the public following their split.
The source suggests that Lopez tracks nearly everything published about Affleck in the media, keeping tabs on his activities and appearances. “She claims to be moving on from Ben,” the insider stated, “but in reality, she is still totally obsessed with him,” describing her fixation as “beyond unhealthy.”
According to the insider, Lopez frequently brings Affleck up in conversations, especially when speaking with their mutual friends. “Any time she sees their mutual friends, she steers the conversation to Ben. She often finds excuses to swing by his house, dropping off items just to linger and see what he’s up to,” they explained. This behavior, the source noted, has made it difficult for Lopez to fully embrace a new chapter.
Even Affleck’s longtime friend Matt Damon has found himself in the middle of the couple’s separation. The source disclosed that whenever Lopez speaks to Damon, “it’s always about Ben.” This constant mention of her ex has reportedly raised concerns among those close to her, as her lingering attachment is preventing her from moving forward.
The Jenny from the Block singer’s apparent fixation on Affleck, according to the insider, is impeding her ability to heal. “As much as she talks a good game about moving forward, the truth is she’s still just as obsessed as ever,” the source concluded. “The way she’s mourning this break-up, you’d think they’d been married for 20 years, not two.”
For now, Lopez’s journey to recovery appears complicated by her ongoing focus on Affleck, raising questions about how she will navigate this challenging period. Friends hope that with time, she’ll find a way to truly move on.